International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia: Reflections of a Gay Man

The International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia on May 17 holds profound significance for me as a gay man, particularly one living with HIV. As someone who intersects various identities, I am often exposed to different forms of discrimination, even in my professional life where I closely work with LGBTQ+ communities. This day prompts me to reflect on the progress made in supporting these communities and the challenges that persist.

South Africa, where I live freely with my partner in Johannesburg, has been a leader in protecting LGBTQ+ rights. The country’s Constitution prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity, and same-sex marriage has been legal since 2006. However, globally, more than two-thirds of countries still criminalize LGBTQ+ individuals, with some regions experiencing a rise in homophobia and discriminatory practices.

In East and Southern Africa, where I work, progress has been made in decriminalizing same-sex relationships in countries like Angola, Botswana, Madagascar, Mozambique, and Rwanda. However, recent laws in Uganda and proposed legislation in Kenya pose significant risks to LGBTQ+ individuals.

Discriminatory policies and laws are often justified in the name of preserving culture and values, but to me, true African culture embraces inclusivity and tolerance. As someone involved in the global HIV response, I’ve witnessed how progress in human rights is crucial for ending AIDS. Harmful social norms, stigma, discrimination, and discriminatory laws can quickly reverse the gains made in HIV prevention and treatment.

Living in a country that criminalizes my identity would severely impact my life, limiting access to health services, risking my sexual health, and living in constant fear of persecution. Everyone, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, is entitled to human rights, including equality, health, and protection from discrimination.

On this day, I reflect on these challenges but also celebrate the freedom to live openly. I celebrate the resilience of my community, which continues to fight for our rights despite the challenges we face.